We've all done it ... made New Year's resolutions that only last a day. Or, if you're especially dedicated, a week after 1 January.
We might set them with the best of intentions, but more often than not, the promises we make to ourselves fall by the wayside. And we wind up where we started, with an extra dose of guilt for 'not seeing it through'.
If you've reached the end of 2018, with the feeling that 'something's got to change', then why not change up the way you view New Year's Resolutions or goal - setting in general?
For starters, let's look at the timings of our resolutions, and why you might be better off waiting until February to kick things off.
The Clock Strikes Midnight
The first day of the New Year can be a particularly tricky time to create healthy habits and break 'bad' ones.
You might be tired or hungover from the night before. You may still be on holidays and not in your usual routine, or even in your own hometown. You might be recovering from a busy festive season – or a busy year's end – and need a moment to take a breath, rather than launch into the next project of 'New Year, New Me'.
The fact is, scheduling our New Year's resolutions to start precisely in the New Year can set us up for failure.
Why February can be better
Once February comes around, for most of us, the jingle - jangle of the festive season has settled down, and life has returned to some semblance of 'normal'.
We're more likely to be back at work or studies, or back to our daily duties and into the swing of our every day life.
So where does that leave us in January? Do we get a nother month of festivities? Not so fast.
Plant, plan, test
A key part of starting your New Year's resolutions in February – and seeing them through to success – is spend ing the month of January preparing, and planting the seeds for future high - fives.
Use the month to plan properly, and put yourself in the best starting position, rather than launching straight away and trying to sprint to the finish line. Throughout the month, try out a few different variations of your goals, dip your toe into the water, and use the time to see what works for you.
For example, if your goal is to 'exercise more', spend the four weeks of January trying it out, and testing how it will work. Is three times a week doable? Too much, too little? What time of day works best? Visit your local gym if you've not been there before, explore your local parks for walking tracks, or try out a few exercise classes in your suburb. This way you'll have more options and be more familiar with what can keep you on track and what might lead you astray.
Come 1 February, you'll be in a position of power, armed with experience and know - how and good groundwork underfoot.
Tips for goal - Setting
A key part of keeping your New Year's resolutions is realising that change is a process, rather than a single step.
In our recent Jean Hailes Magazine article 'The power of positive change', we explain how setting yourself up for success is not as simple as picking a goal out of thin air. The three steps of making positive changes in life are to:
1. Set your goal
Set an overarching goal. Also, be sure to set smaller targets along the way that will encourage and help you reach your goal.
2. Address barriers
Address psychological and physical barriers. How are you going to think differently? What are you going to do differently?
3. Be flexible
Be flexible and adaptive. If things are not going to your plan, review and tweak it to make success more likely.
Read the article in full – it's full of more great tips for creating healthy habits – and set yourself up for a healthy, happy 2019.
Published with the permission of Jean Hailes for Women's Health jeanhailes.org.au 1800 JEAN HAILES (532 642)